Have you seen TV One’s Original Movie When Love Kills: The Falicia Blakely Story? I know I am usually tardy to the party, but I had to catch this one.
First, it was Tasha Smith’s director feature debut. I’ve been a fan of hers since Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married? Second, I wanted to see Lil Mama win. I had seen some random interview a while back where she talked about taking acting seriously. I could hear the hunger in her voice, and so I wanted to support her. Finally, It was the true story of Falicia Blakely. Sometimes life is stranger than fiction, and this is one of those times. Lance Cross and Floyd Mayweather were bonuses. During the movie, we discover that after growing up in a dysfunctional single parent home Falicia falls in love with a manipulative pimp Dino. Dino’s good looks and the promise of paradise coupled with his violent nature and his inauspicious career leads Falicia and her accomplice Pumpkin down a dark path.
I am excited to see how Tasha’s directing career blooms from here. Lil Mama held her own and gave Falicia Blakely a voice. I am not the kind of person that ruins movies for other people, and so this doesn’t article doesn’t have any movie spoilers. Feel free to read this and then go and watch the film.
The actors were great, but the plot had a hold on me. By the end of the movie, I had 1,000 questions for the real Falicia, Pumpkin, and Dino, and I wasn’t going to sleep until I found away to get those answers. There were just these little details that tugged at the journalistic sleuth in me. I wanted to know more about them not just as criminals, but as people. I wanted to know where they were now, and how they felt about each other and the movie. So I reached out to Fallicia Blakely, Ameshia Ervin, and Michael Berry, and they were all kind of enough to answer all of my questions.
Falicia’s point of view informed the story, and so I reached out to her first. She was incredibly kind and open. I promised to send her your responses to this article so be sure to leave one. She seems interested in what the world thinks about her story.
Behind When Love Kills: Falica Blakley
AA: Your story is so personal, and you have been through a lot, what made you decide to share it with the world?
FB: I’m not the one who decided to share it with the world. Mrs. Casondra Beedles is. She had been following my story since 2004, and once she saw the For my Man segment, she proposed a script to TVOne and they accepted it, and the rest was history. Everything was done on public records and such. Therefore, I thought it would be extraordinary for a book to be written at the same time to give my entire story and A Treacherous Hustle was formed by Serenti Hall. So it’s like God decided it was time.
AA: How has the book and the movie changed your life?
FB: I really can’t say that my life has changed except for the fact God is allowing me to speak with more people all over the United States about the dangers and possibilities of being liberated from Domestic Violence and Human Trafficking. Where I once just had the chance to tell those I came in contact with, TVOne has made a platform for me, to hopefully save our daughters, maybe even our sons too!
AA: Has Michael Berry ever apologized for his actions?
FB: There a Kindle book out that is titled “Falicia Blakely’s letters from a pimp.” Enclosing some letters, he wrote me back in 2006. It’s the closest I ever got to an apology for his actions. A coward can’t admit when they’re wrong. It takes a Man or a Woman to stand before another individual and face reality and acknowledge how they treated another individual.
AA: How was it seeing your life being played out on screen? What did you hope women would walk away with?
FB: Seeing the movie was emotional… It’s so sad how naive I was, how my mind was manipulated. I hope that women, young ladies, and teenage girls can see how we give way too much of ourselves to men, to people in general. We accommodate to the point we lose sight of ourselves and then we’re left to figure how to move forward with our lives once that individual is out of the picture.
I hope they can look at me and see the importance of being careful who you love; not everybody deserves it. Some people are in love with the idea of being in love. If you’re the only one giving and making an effort in the relationship, it’s probably not worth having. [It] isn’t apart of your destiny anyways! Where God is taking you that deadbeat can’t go…
AA: How does the book differ from the movie?
FB: A Treacherous Hustle is so much more graphic! It even covers my childhood, as well as the day I got sentenced. What I felt and how I responded to it all. It lays out ALL the foolishness Mr. Berry did to me. Situations the movie didn’t capture, things he did that was too much for TV! It’s sad, but it was the life I chose for myself.
AA: What’s next for you? Will you write another book or share more of your personal stories? What are some of your dreams and aspirations now?
FB: There is another book already in the making. I am working with Ms. Serenti Hall. She is the young lady I sold my rights to, to tell my life story, “A Treacherous Hustle“. She will produce a book about my life after I was sentenced.
Right now we’re calling it Life after LIFE, but that is subject to change. I also hope to write some novels myself. I hope to possibly start a foundation for run away girls, girls who are most likely subjected to human trafficking. As a means to give back to our community. I hope to see the day hope to see the day when my victims family can forgive me and Mr. Berry is held accountable for his role in these murders and if nothing else I can one day be eligible for parole.
Falicia Blakely is serving three life sentences with no chance of parole. She just turned 34 years old the other day. Falicia Blakely and Armeshia Ervin are serving their sentences in the same Georgia State Prison.
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I have not seen the movie but I do remember seeing her episode of For My Man. I remember feeling terribly sorry for her and all that she went through. I can also recall thinking, “Wow, how dumb can a girl be for love.” After reading this interview I will definitely be watching the movie and with a totally different outlook. I usually hate when ppl blame others for their choices; but when your mind is easily manipulated due to your idea of love is it really your fault? I’m not sure that question has been answered for me, however, I am glad that Ms Blakely has taken the role of helpmate to others in her past predicament. I also have to say that no Man is perfect. There were mistakes made all around on each person’s part. Each of them deserve to be punished for their crimes, but no one person deserves more than the other. God is fair and just. Each of them speak of finding God, so my prayer for each of them is that they follow his lead and surrender themselves to his will. I must say that this was a very informative and well written article.
Yes, that is why I had to interview everybody involved. Pumpkin cleared up a lot for me.
I’m amazed at the way Michael Berry, said he is glad that Ameshia stuck to the street code. okay she stuck to the code but she is doing life is prison and he’s home free leaving his life. That alone was his admission to the crimes as he do in The Falicia Blakely letters. Falicia did wrong and she admitted it, but is it a crime for her to open up about it and tell his part in it. On top of that he says that he will put not just Falicia in his book, but ALL the girls. Very interesting, I can’t wait to read the book.
Forgive me for typing fast. Leaving is suppose to be (living) in my previous comment
I hope that you will complete the interview I sent you as well…
Hey,
I think I sent it through your website last year. I wanted to do a giveaway of the book. I don’t think it is to late. You are such a great writer. I would love to feature you. I can send you some new questions if you would like.
I was shocked when he admitted to his wrong doing as well. I figured the statue of limitations must be up or something. He also admitted to being violent. It seems Ameshia has decided not to keep the code because she said he should have been charged. I don’t think we will ever get that book… I hoping Falicia gets a miracle… I am sending her this article in case his words can help her situation.
I don’t remember receiving anything.
I have this on my DVR to watch later. This story really intrigued me from the moment I saw the trailer on TV.
Great article, any mention of how her daughter is doing?
She actually has a son and not a daughter that is one of the things the movie changed. What did you think about what Pumpkin said ?
Damn this was deep. I’m going to watch this movie!!! Seems like an amazing story.
I watched the movie last week. It was sad. I had to research the people involved after I watched it. This article gave even more information.
I just found the time to watch this movie last week. It sadden me to see this as I know girls like this caught up in similar if not the same situation. It’s so easy to judge until we know someone that is or has gone through the same situation and you really hear their story. My prayers are definitely with her and her family. Thanks for sharing this interview.
I have not heard this story or about the movie but I am intrigued. I will be trying to find it on demand.
I started watching the other night but had to stop, now I cant wait to go back and watch the entire movie!
I found the movie to be interesting yet disturbing. It’s so sad that young women get caught in situations like this because they are looking for love and have love self-esteem. I am interested in reading her book to gain more insight into this story.
Great article! I have to ‘Thank’ Falicia Blakely for her honesty. Not a lot of people have the courage to admit where they went wrong. I will definitely have to check the movie out. I’m curious to see Floyd Mayweathers acting.
Wow this was such a great and insightful interview! I haven’t seen the movie yet, but I hope to catch it on TV one day.
I watched the movie knowing nothing about this story. It was crazy to watch and when it was over I definitely had questions. I need to check out the book.
I went to the media screening in Atlanta for this film and it was so eye opening. This is amazing you got to interview the real Felicia and bless her soul. I do believe people need strong parental figures to help guide them, yes even after 18! 18 is still a teen, and from my knowledge she didnt even get a chance at real adulthood because she had her baby young (followed her moms footsteps). Felicia like many young girls are seeking their father in men, and taking any kind of love is what they keep chasing. I really wish she could get off on parole, she was naive and to me set up in a bad situation. Maybe someone should reevaluate the case and help her get out.
I never watched this movie, but I can’t believe how interesting this story is. I might actually have to watch it now.
Very Interesting I would live to help her dream of the center for runway girls and boys happen, and please let her know praying for Here..
I have never heard about the story but it looks super interesting and I must watch it. I’m sorry that she ended up in prison but hopefully through her story she can help others.
What a great interview. I hadn’t heard of this before, but I’m going to have to check it out.
This situation makes me thankful for my parents, and realize the importance of them in my life. In saying this, EVERYONE has choices in life, from the victims (allowing these girls in their homes) to the criminals in jail today. This is a horrific story and should be used as a cautionary tale, to stay away from people of this nature. Sadly,this is probably the most positive response Falicia has ever received in life, and it is from people who have compassion and empathy for her story. She is still a murderer, who killed people and must pay for her crimes. I went to her instagram page, and she seems happy in her pictures, this may be a form of therapeutic healing for her, as she may still think like a 19y/o, not fully understanding she killed people. Aisha, great interviews, thank you! Ameisha Erving should tell her story, she seems cold and out of touch, but she is not a murderer, so probably wants to leave the past in the past. Mike Berry is a sick, irresponsible child, and seems detached from reality. All three of them make me shudder. You can’t erase the past, but you can use stories like this to help people going down this path turn away from this lifestyle. Thanks for your blog Aisha.
This inrerview has prompted me to check out the movie and the book. Great interview. I love the Felicia mentioned how as women we can fall for the love trap with the wrong person. In the end our actions our choice and our burden to carry so it so important to guard our heart from friends or lovers that lead us down the wrong path.
Ameisha Irvin only knew her for 1 month and went with her to robbed and murdered three people? Left her two kids behind? No she need to stay right there with Miss Blakely.
Falicia “Fe” you are a beautiful woman and I love you. You have taught me so much about life in ways you will never know. I have tried to reach out to you with no success. I shared your story with a young lady who I feel could be following in your footsteps. I tell her about your story then and your “Story” now. You have inspired me so much. Until we meet again…your Jewiss Barbara!
Hey were you able to reach out to her? I am happy to forward your information to her.
I’m just seeing the movie and hearing of this story. I know I’m late to the party but if you get this please forward Ms. Blakely my info as well. I’d like to communicate & hear more possibly from her. I believe her experience can be truly helpful and may even save the very life of another woman or teenager in a similar situation. I have a 21 year old daughter and I like to share these types of real life stories with her to try to educate her and hopefully prevent her from falling prey to these antics by these men who mean her nothing but harm. Her first serious “relationship” was with a controlling young guy that treated her badly. Thanks to GOD she finally got out of it. I push these types of stories in her face constantly to show her how things could have ended up and to hopefully persuade her to never get involved with someone like this ever again. I really hate this realization happened to Felicia too late but at least she’s still alive because it often doesn’t work out that way. I do also feel obligated to acknowledge the victims and their families as I’m sure it was a profound loss for them. They didn’t deserve what happened, it was definitely wrong and all involved should be held accountable and deal with the consequences. It’s outrageous that the “Dino” character is Scott free! Shame on the so called justice system has not charged & convicted him now that they know without doubt that he was definitely involved and seemingly the mastermind and instegater of these horrific crimes as well as physically and mentally abusing these women and many more. I know that’s was a lot. Can you tell this story hit a nerve?!!
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None of these people need to see the light of day. Meechi was my cousin and he will never see the light of day. It’s only fair that their fate is the same. They have caused an immeasurable amount of pain, heart ache, and mental illness for numerous members of our family. Not one person has been the same since Meechi’s tragic murder. I imagine the families of the other two victims feel the same. There are plenty of woman that come from broken homes, bad relationships etc and they do go out and murder numerous people. That’s good that two of the three have admitted guilt and that all three seem to be trying to educate and better themselves but they need to be better people behind bars for an eternity. Just like the victims will never experience a free life again neither should these criminals. And yes, seventeen years later I am still angry. I will not support the movie or any books. I feel that any funds made off of this story should go to the families. These young men had children that our now fatherless. Everyone is feeling sorry for these people that chose to do drugs and commit murder where is the compassion for the lives lost?
I apologize for your loss. I cant imagine your pain. I didn’t write this story to advocate for anyones freedom here. I felt that people needed to know that story isn’t just a movie on tv. These are real people and your cousin lost his life. I feel sorry for everyone in this situation because there were no winners here. I feel honored that you even wrote your feeling here , and hopefully what you have added will add to severity of the situation. Drugs and murder harm do a lot of harm.
It’s 12:am and I just seen the movie for the first time ever. I was sleeping and woke up to it 10-15 minutes in. I would like to say I love was glued to the Television I wanted to google more but I waited until the movie was over. Falicia is like most young girls. I’m 35 and sometimes get caught up in the ways of a manipulative man. I am so happy that Falicia decided to share her story. I can relate on many levels and know how easily one decision can lead you in a situation you never dreamed you’d be in. I truly pray this story touch the lives of everyone who reads/watch it. I appreciate her honesty and I am so in love with the movie. You are a hero. You just saved a women’s life with this movie, you just helped someone escape abuse and you just allowed God to use your story to bring some type of change to the world. So, you see Falicia although it may seem you made mistakes Hod worked it out for your good. I am sorry about all the lives that were impacted by the decisions made. There is always something to learn in good or bad decisions. You hold your head high and I pray God gives her a miracle. He can do anything. I pray for the lives lost, families impacted and your child who I pray has a great relationship with you and learn from your mistake and take his life experience to help others in his situation. I have a sister that has life in prison. My niece understands her mother’s crime and she is dealing with a lot. I pray for your son. Please I would like to be in contact with Falicia just to write her positive encouragement and Ameshia as well. Stay positive and spread live.
Side effects of living amongst colonizers. They’re all victims 😡